| Helpful Books (sorted by relevancy -- most relevant on the top) | |||
| 1 | Doris Langley Moore (A Gentlewoman) | Technique of the Love Affair | Y |
| 2 | Herb Goldberg (articles: 1, 2) | What Men Really Want | Y |
| 3 | Dr. Connell Cowan, Gail Parent | The Art of War for Lovers | Y |
| 2 | John Gray | Mars and Venus on a Date Chapter 11 and Chapter 17 ONLY | N |
| 4 | Robert Greene, Joost Elffers | 48 Laws of Power | N |
| 5 | Steven Carter, Julia Sokol | Men Who Can't Love | N |
| 6 | Patricia Allen, Sandra Harmon | Getting to "I Do" | N |
| 7 | Lisa Johnson | How to Snare a Millionaire | N |
| 8 | Dory Hollander | 101 Lies Men Tell Women | Y |
| 9 | Judith Martin | Miss Manners (any book of this series) | Y |
| 10 | Suzette Haden Elgin | Gentle Art of Verbal Self-Defense (and other similar books by Elgin) | Y |
| 9 | H.Andelin or D.Coory | Fascinating Womanhood | n/a |
| Useless or Damaging Books (don't waste your time and money!) | ||
| 1 | Barbara DeAngelis | The Real Rules |
| 2 | Bradley Gerstman, Robert Seldes, Christopher Pizzo | What Men Want |